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Brief History of the Samurai

	courtesy of Mark McGee

SamuraiJapan has a history that dates back thousands of years. Scientists believe the Japanese people descended from many groups that migrated to the islands from other parts of Asia, including China and Korea. As early as 4500 B.C., the Japanese islands were inhabited by fishermen, hunters and farmers. The early culture was known as “Jomon,” which meant “cord pattern.” That’s because the people made pottery decorated with rope-like designs. Scientists believe a caucasian race called the “Ainu” were the first inhabitants of what is now Japan. The Ainu still exist today, mostly in the northernmost islands of Japan called “Hokkaido.” The next major Japanese cultural changed occured about 200 B.C. The people were known as “Yayoi.” The Yayoi were mostly farmers. Scientists believe the present-day Japanese closely resemble the Yayoi in appearance and language.

War played a central part in the history of Japan. Warring clans controlled much of the country. A chief headed each clan; made up of related families. The chiefs were the ancestors of Japan’s imperial family. The wars were usually about “land.” Only 20% of the land was fit for farming. The struggle for control of that land eventually gave rise to the Samurai.

One of the important dates in the history of the Japanese warring class is 660 B.C. That’s when, according to legend, Jimmu Tenno became head of a confederation of warlike clans. Tenno was known as “The Divine Warrior.” He led his people from Kyushu to the Kinki region and conquered the people there. Tenno settled in the area of Yamato. This eventually gave rise to the Yamato dynasty and state. The leaders of Yamato believed themselves to be of divine origin.

20101202194040!Satsuma-samurai-during-boshin-war-period_0The Yamato clans conducted many military campaigns on the Asian mainland. The targets included Korea and China. These campaigns led to the importation of Korean and Chinese culture, technology and martial arts.

Legend says that Emperor Keiko was the first person with the title of “Shogun.” The word meant “Barbarian-subduing General.” Legend continues that Keiko had a son named “Prince Yamato.” He was cunning, fearless, strong and a great martial artist. Many believe that Yamato was a role model for future Samurai.

Ancient Yayoi warriors developed weapons, armour and a code during the ensuing centuries that became the centerpiece for the Japanese Samurai. Early weapons included bows, arrows and swords. Armour included a helmet that protected head and neck, a breasplate that protected the chest, arm and shoulder protectors, and a belly wrap. Later armour included protection for the legs and thighs. Armour changed as the type of battles changed. A big change occured in the 5th century when horses were introduced to Japan. Another change occured in the 15th century because of the constancy of war and the introduction of guns into battle. The code developed from the Chinese concept of the virtues of warriors doing battle to the Samurai code of chivalry known as Kyuba no michi (“The Way of Horse and Bow”) to the Bushido (“Way of the Warrior”) code.

“Bushido” means “Way of the Warrior.” It was at the heart of the beliefs and conduct of the Samurai. The philosophy of Bushido is “freedom from fear.” It meant that the Samurai transcended his fear of death. That gave him the peace and power to serve his master faithfully and loyally and die well if necessary. “Duty” is a primary philosophy of the Samurai.

The Samurai rose out of the continuing battles for land among three main clans: the Minamoto, the Fujiwara and the Taira. The Samurai eventually became a class unto themselves between the 9th and 12th centuries A.D. They were called by two names: Samurai (knights-retainers) and Bushi (warriors). Some of them were related to the ruling class. Others were hired men. They gave complete loyalty to their Daimyo (feudal landowners) and received land and position in return. Each Daimyo used his Samurai to protect his land and to expand his power and rights to more land.

samurai-104The Samurai became expert in fighting from horseback and on the ground. They practiced armed and un-armed combat. The early Samurai emphasized fighting with the bow and arrow. They used swords for close-in fighting and beheading their enemies. Battles with the Mongols in the late 13th century led to a change in the Samurai’s fighting style. They began to use their sword more and also made more use of spears and naginata. The Samurai slowly changed from fighting on horseback to fighting on foot.

The Samurai wore two swords (daisho). One was long; the other short. The long sword (daito – katana) was more than 24 inches. The short sword (shoto – wakizashi) was between 12 and 24 inches. The Samurai often gave names to their swords and believed it was the “soul” of their warriorship. The oldest swords were straight and had their early design in Korea and China. The Samurai’s desire for tougher, sharper swords for battle gave rise to the curved blade we still have today. The sword had its beginning as iron combined with carbon. The swordsmith used fire, water, anvil and hammer to shape the world’s best swords. After forging the blade, the sword polisher did his work to prepare the blade for the “furniture” that surrounded it. Next, the sword tester took the new blade and cut through the bodies of corpses or condemned criminals. They started by cutting through the small bones of the body and moved up to the large bones. Test results were often recorded on the nakago (the metal piece attaching the sword blade to the handle).

 


Samurai Dates of Importance


  • 660 B.C. — Legend says Jimmu Tenno became Japan’s first emperor and set up the ruling Yamato State. Weapons and armour develop.
  • 400′s A.D. — Horses introduced into Japanese fighting.
  • 500′s A.D. — Buddhism arrived in Japan; becomes a powerful philosophy for rulers and warriors.
  • 500′s A.D. — Soga clan dominated the Yamato court.
  • 645 A.D. — Taika Reforms began.
  • 702 A.D. — Taiho law codes established the Great Council of State.
  • 710 A.D. — Nara rule began with first permanent capital.
  • 781 A.D. — Emperor Kammu came to power and moved capital to Kyoto a few years later.
  • 794 A.D. — Heian period began.
  • 858 A.D. — Fujiwara family gained control of imperial court.
  • 935 A.D. — Taira Masakado revolted and proclaimed himself “The New Emperor.” Other Samurai leaders exerted their influence across the land and changed the history of Japan.
  • 1180-85 A.D. — Minamoto Yoritomo takes up arms against the Taira clan in The Gempei War.
  • 1192 A.D. — Yoritomo became first permanent shogun of Japan and set up his Samurai government in Kamakura.
  • Late 1200′s A.D. — Mongols invade Japan. The Samurai defeat the Mongols after many years of fierce fighting. The Samurai developed a style of formation combat and depended more on the sword as a primary weapon in battle.
  • 1318 A.D. — Go-Daigo became the 96th Emperor of Japan. He attempted to overthrow the Hojo regents, but gave rise instead to a new dynasty of Shoguns, the Ashikaga family, who set up their government in the capital city of Kyoto.
  • 1400′a A.D. — Master swordsmen established schools to teach their style of ken-jutsu.
  • 1467-77 A.D. — The Onin War saw the decline of the Shogun’s power and began the Sengoku Jidai (“The Age of the Country at War”) which lasted 150 years.
  • 1542 A.D. — Portuguese guns were introduced into Japan.
  • 1560 A.D. — Oda Nobunaga began the process of unifying Japan. Toyotomi Hideyoshi continued the quest after Nobunaga’s death.
  • 1592 A.D. — Hideyoshi invaded Korea on his way to invading China, but died in 1598 before succeeding.
  • 1603 A.D. — The Tokugawa family began ruling Japan. The regime lasted more than 200 years.
  • 1605 A.D. — Miyamoto Musashi, Japan’s most famous Samurai, began his musha-shugyo (warrior pilgrimage). Musashi fought and won more than 60 sword fights before the age of 30. He founded the Individual School of Two Skies and taught for many years. At the age of 60, Musashi wrote Gorin No Sho (“The Book of Five Spheres”), the most famous writing about the Japanese Sword Arts. He also wrote “The 35 Articles on the Art of Swordsmanship.”
  • 1615 A.D. — Tokugawa Ieyasu drew up the “Buke Sho Hatto” (Rules for Martial Families) before his death. It gave Samurai 13 guides to living as a warrior during peace time.
  • 1630 A.D. — Japan cut its ties with the outside world.
  • 1854 A.D. — Commodore Matthew Perry opened trade between the United States and Japan.
  • 1867 A.D. — Emperor Mutsuhito regained his traditional powers and took the name Meiji. It was the beginning of the Meiji Restoration. Meiji (Mutsuhito) set up his new capital city in Edo (Tokyo).
  • 1868 A.D. — Emperor Meiji introduced the “Five Articles Oath” which began the dismantling of the Samurai class.
  • 1873 A.D. — Emperor Meiji established an army based on conscription; an army open to anyone.
  • 1876 A.D. — Emperor Meiji declared a new law that ended the wearing of swords. The Samurai had lost their profession and their right to wear swords. Their position as a special class ended after almost 1,000 years.

Samurai Terms


Batto-jutsu 
A sword-drawing art that includes cutting rolled straw targets 
Bo-jutsu 
Staff fighting 
Budo 
Martial or Fighting Arts 
Bushido 
The Way of the Warrior 
Chokuto 
Straight sword used in Japan’s early history 
Daimyo 
Feudal landowner 
Daisho 
Samurai’s two swords (one long – katana, one short – wakizashi) 
Edo Period 
1600 – 1867 when Tokugawa government ruled Japan
Giri 
Samurai’s duty 
Gunpai 
War fan 
Hakama 
Divided skirt-pants Samurai wore 
Heian Period 
782 – 1184 when Japan’s capital was located in Kyoto 
Iai-jutsu 
Art of Drawing the Sword 
Kamakura Period 
1185 – 1332 when the capital of Japan was in Kamakura. Known as the “golden age” of the Japanese sword. 
Kampaku 
Regent 
Katana 
Long sword 
Ken 
Sword – refers specifically to an ancient, two-edge sword made before the ninth century 
Ken-jutsu 
Art of the Sword 
Koto 
Swords made before the Edo Period 
Kyo-jutsu 
Bow and arror fighting 
Kyuba no michi 
The Way of the Horse and Bow 
Kyu-jutsu 
Japanese archery 
Mei 
Name of a sword 
Momoyana Period 
1573 – 1599 when Samurai began wearing daisho. Also beginning of the Shinto (new sword) period. 
Mon 
Family crest worn on montsuki 
Montsuki 
Kimono top Japanese wore at formal occasions 
Muramasa 
Sword maker 
Muromachi Period 
1392 – 1572 when constant civil wars greatly increased the production of swords. 
Musha-shugyo 
Warrior pilgrimage 
Naginata 
Long pole with curved blade on one end 
Naginata-jutsu 
Way of the Naginata 
Nambokucho Period 
1333 – 1391 when two emperors were vying for power in Japan 
No-dachi 
Long sword 
Ronin 
Master-less Samurai 
Ryu 
Particular school or style of martial arts 
Samurai 
Member of the warrior class 
Sensei 
Teacher 
Seppuku 
Ritual suicide 
Shin Shinto 
“New New Sword” – any sword made after Meiji Restoration (1870) 
Shinto 
“New Sword” – any sword made between 1596 and 1870 
Shogun 
Barbarian subduing General (war lord) 
So-jutsu 
Spear fighting 
Sohei 
Warrior monks 
Tachi 
Long, deeply curved sword that mounted Samurai used in ancient Japan 
Uchigatana 
“Inside sword” – a term for the longer of two swords Samurai wore 
Wakizashi 
Short sword 
Zanshin 
Samurai’s sensing danger 

Samurai Bibliography


  • Harry Cook – “Samurai: The Story of a Warrior Tradition” (Sterling Publishing)
  • Darrell Craig – “Iai: The Art of Drawing the Sword” (Charles Tuttle Co.)
  • Donn Draeger – “The Martial Arts and Ways of Japan” (Weatherhill Inc.)
  • Miyamoto Musashi – “The Book of Five Rings” (Shambhala Inc.)
  • Masayuki Shimabukuro – “Flashing Steel” (Frog Ltd.)
  • Nicklaus Suino – “The Art of Japanese Swordsmanship” (Weatherhill Inc.)

Samurai Swords – Anatomy

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Parts of the sword
Saya – the scabbard
The saya is the scabbard, or case, in which the sword is held. Usually made of wood. The act of sheathing the sword correctly without causing injury to oneself or tarnishing the blade is called no to. The art of drawing the sword from the saya, performing various cuts, and returning it is called Iai do. More decorative saya may be wrapped with ito and decorated with crests. Ninja would sometimes have a saya that was slightly longer than the blade of the sword so metsubushi or blinding powder can be hidden inside. Often the bottom piece of the saya could be removed so it could be used as a snorkel. Throwing darts were also sometimes hidden inside the saya.

Sageo – the belt cord
The sageo had several uses, including tying back the sleeves of the kimono or binding the hakama when confrontation was imminent. With respect to the sword, it was tied into the obi or belt and used to keep the saya from slipping out or being lost. The ninja had a much longer sageo which would be carried in the teeth when climbing so the sword would not get in the way.

Fuchi Kashira – the fittings
Kashira is the fitting on the butt of the tsuka. It is sometimes very ornate, sometimes very plain, but is almost always considered a signature of the sword’s creator. The same is true of Fuchi, the fitting just under the tsuba. They often featured engravings of dragons, clouds, trees or other various scenes which would be a mark of the creator’s artistry.Their function is twofold; to hold the tsuka together and to hold the ito in place around it.

Nakago – the tang
The nakago is the part of the blade that his held inside the tsuka. it is usually held in place by two bamboo pins. This is often referred to as a tang. The deeper the nakago, the more sturdy the sword will likely be.

Tsuka – the hilt
The tsuka is the part of the sword it’s user would hold. It is usually made of wood, covered in rayskin and wrapped in ito cord. These days most katana feature an 11-inch tsuka, but traditional swords had a tsuka of up 15 inches or even longer. The length of the tsuka allows the user’s hands to be farther apart, increasing the control and cutting power of the sword. The cutting power comes from wringing the hands around the tsuka as the cut is performed.

Same – rayskin
The rayskin which covers the tsuka is usually white in color and has hundreds of little bumps on it for gripping.

Ito – wrapping
Ito is the name given to the cord wrapped around the tsuka. It is wrapped in a very specific way. Only cord wrapped this way is called ito.

Menuki – charms
If you look under the ito and on top of the same, you will see charms that are held onto the tsuka. These charms were again often a trademark of the individual who made the sword.

Mekugi – the bamboo pins
If you examine the tsuka, you can see clearly two bamboo pins. These hold the nakago in place.

Tsuba – the cut guard
There are many different kinds of tsuba and to some the making of tsuba is an art in itself. This is the part of the sword which separates the tsuka from ken, or the blade. It protects the hands from slipping onto the blade and also protects the hands from being cut by an enemy. There were also swords called shirasaya, which did not have tsuba.

Habaki – the collar
Habaki is the name given to the square piece, usually brass or iron, which wraps around the base of the blade and is connected to the tsuba. It works with the nakago to keep the blade firmly in place.

Ken – the blade
The blade of the samurai sword is a true work of art, and even today in Japan people carry on ancient family traditions of sword making, even if only as a hobby. The forging process for the samurai sword was remarkable and included using pure, high-carbon steel, heating it and folding it over 200 times, covering it in clay, heating it to 3,000 degrees and cooling it off in water. The samurai sword’s blade was so powerful that it could cut a person clean in half. For this reason, there was no room for error in the japanese sword arts! The samurai sword is also remarkably light in contrast to swords of other cultures. After some time of evolution, the current curved blade design was found to be superior and more resistant to breaking than a straight blade was. Really there are many kinds of blades, the style we are accustomed to seeing is very popular because it is used in iai do and kenjutsu. Because the steel is made with high-carbon steel it is very important never to let your fingers touch. This will cause the blade to rust. Also, it should always be oiled. This will protect it from patina and rust that come with age.

Hamon – the wave frost
The heat tempering and fast cooling of the blades causes the edge to produce a find wave pattern, called a hamon. The pattern of the hamon should be random and unpredictable. If the waves are consummate, then the hamon did not come from cooling.

Hada – The Grain
The grain of the blade is difficult to see, but if you observe the blade in the right light you can see it, although just barely. There are many different types of grain.

Hi – the blood groove
Historically speaking, there are many different kinds of hi and there is some debate as to their purpose, if they have a purpose at all. Today, the most common hi we see is called a bo hi. This is the groove which runs along the blade toward the flat edge. Some say it was originally used to give blood a place to run along the blade so it could be easily cleaned using chuboree, blade cleaning techniques. Other say it was there strictly for aesthetic purposes. There are two kinds of hi; a standard hi ends just short of the habaki, an extended hi terminates at the nakago.

Yaiba – the cutting edge
Yaiba is the name given to the cutting edge of the blade. This is where the hamon appears. The blade of the samurai was so sharp that it could cut through bone easily. Yaiba is also one half of the character ‘shinobu’or ‘nin’ which means ‘to endure’ and is one half of the kanji for ‘ninjutsu.’

Kissaki – the tip
The rounded part of the blade at the end where the point is is called kissaki. This part is used to ‘tsuki’ or thrust the sword into the enemy. It can also be used to make surgically accurate cuts to vital areas. Phony swords often have a squred kissaki.

 

Jutsu or Do?

Original Article by Chrisgee

I was going to post a blog about koshi waza, but as I so bitterly disappointed with my performance that I’ll try to produce some videos worth sharing and discuss them next week.

Something that has been knocking around in my head recently has been more philosophical.  Jutsu or Do?  Other than the stylised distinctions between Jutsu and Do combative systems, I think the truth is that two are not so easily parted.


To quickly address the point about Aikijutsu/Aikijujutsu and Aikido.  From what I can gather only Daito Ryu was occasionally referred to a aikijutsu/aikijujutsu rather jujutsu and it seems to me like it was some sort of marketing ploy.  No other school (ryu) of classical melee combative system was referred to with the suffix.  Sometimes I think that this aikijutsu name gives Aikidoka  a false sense of the sophistication and power of our art.  The reality is that many amazing melee systems existed, like all the systems Sokaku Takeda studied and others like Kito Ryu, Yagyu Shingan Ryu (pictured) and Yoshin Ryu all carried the suffix Jujutsu.

After that small digression, when we look at the definitions jutsu means technique.  Many modern creators of Japanese combative systems wanted to distance themselves with the cruel techniques of the Japanese warriors commonly called Samurai.  However, does this mean we should practice blindly and without focus on the original purpose of the techniques that we are learning.

I’ve covered in previous articles my belief that Aikido techniques are like living archaeology, and with focused study we can see how the techniques we practice have medieval roots.  If we distance ourselves from these truths do we do ourselves a disservice?  Arguably Ueshiba Sensei, especially in his later years rarely discussed (from what I’ve read) the combative nature/hertiage of Aikido. But is it because he knew those foundations the he could become to powerful. I believe so.

Ueshiba Sensei’s understanding of Jutsu, not just the Do (or self perfection/which he focused on later) allowed him to access the true power of each and every technique he developed.

However, in our modern society can we allow ourselves to just focus on Jutsu?  Is Aikido just an archaic combative system from a medieval age which has no bearing place in the 21st century?  We all have the luxury of perfecting our throws and pins, our body movement and balance, a luxury rarely afforded in more unstable times.  But I do believe that if we follow the Do path, then we must understand the movements we make or we are on a path to nowhere. Jutsu is the car and Do is the road, and if we want to make this journey then we need both.

Train with form.

Osu.

AIKIDO UKEMI – Pathology & Treatment

Original Article

AIKIDO UKEMI

Chetan Prakash sensei Godan (5th Dan) ASU (Aikido Schools of Ueshiba)

Its Pathology & Treatment,”

by Chetan Prakash

 

Acknowledgment:

Chapter 4 of my teacher Saotome Sensei’s book: The Principles of Aikido (Shambhala, 1989) is my highest recommendation for reading about the meaning and purpose of ukemi. Any mistaken understanding I have of his teaching is of course, mine and not his.

Let’s start with some quotes to set the tone of the discussion:

“Aikido: The spirit of honest attack and loving reconciliation” attributed to O Sensei

“As your training progresses, always remember that the key to gaining the ability for spontaneous and creative technique lies in good ukemi;” — Mitsugi Saotome Shihan, in “The Principles of Aikido”

“Ukemi is like a leaf falling from a tree, spiraling down to a fast river: the moment it touches the river it is instantly carried downstream…”— Hiroshi Ikeda Shihan, at a seminar, 1999: interpretation mine

“What is Kaeshi Waza? Kaeshi is ukemi, ukemi is kaeshi – my choice.”— Hiroshi Ikeda Sensei, private communication, c. 1995

“Ukemi: skill at receiving arts at a level similar to that in performing them and so demonstrating understanding of technique”— Aikido Association of Northern California test requirements (emphasis mine)

Notes: 1. There is also the saying: “Uke is always right.” It may seem in what follows that I disagree with this. I don’t: off the training mat, that is always true. Ichi-go, ichi-e: there’s no time to dwell on our emotional judgments and hopes. On the mat, it ought to be the aim of one’s training to make this quotation true (and how to do this is the subject of another essay…): Do not interrupt your execution for “another chance.” This article is to be seen in a pedagogical context of helping people learn Aikido. 2. I use the word “ego” in this essay to indicate the illusory, Eastern, sense of separation (“Ahamkar” in Sanskrit), not the positive Freudian ego which is a function of the psyche that (at its best) identifies and copes with reality, using human capacities. The two usages are almost opposites! 3. In what follows, only the first appearance of a Japanese word will be italicized.

Here I will discuss ukemi in two dimensions: as part of basic Aikido study (kihon waza) and as a budo practice, or keiko.
In basic Aikido, ukemi usually means the receiving of a technique executed by nage, the person being attacked. As such it presupposes two things:

A strong, committed and honest attack; and

A movement of the attacker in complete harmony with nage’s intention.

So, in fact, the onus to produce the desired result, in kihon waza, is more on uke than on nage.

 

In budo practice there is a transformation of ukemi, based on skill at the kihon level, into a much more sophisticated function. Yet this transformation comes from a very simple idea: uke attacks in all sincerity and with deadly intent, but upon having the attack rendered ineffective, enters survival and/or reversal mode, while maintaining connection with nage, with the greatest alacrity. To elaborate:

Attacking:

Usually basic technique is practiced slowly, whether from a static attack or from a moving one. Why? One reason is that the practitioners involved may not have the skill, as yet, to go full on with each other and still stay safe. Even if the practitioners do have a great deal of skill in being thrown, struck or pinned, slower practice is the best way to study carefully the subtler aspects of technique, as well as the fundamentals of aiki behind it. One can work with a single principle at a time and discover what it takes to embody it in the midst of an encounter, without over-exciting one’s spirit to the point where fear of injury (or failure) takes over. In general, for beginners or even seasoned practitioners, significant new learning usually cannot take place at full speed. There is definitely a place for practicing as fast as possible – it’s fun, it builds courage and stamina and it shows some of the limits of one’s skill, but if it is done so fast that the parties lose sight of the level of their own fear and tension, people may well be enjoying themselves – but without learning much.

In kihon waza, uke’s job is crucial to nage’s learning process. If uke’s slow attack does not faithfully simulate what would happen at normal speed, nage is not going to learn how to deal with a real event, at real speeds. Any deviation from the fully committed attack that stays connected with nage’s initial position and finishes where it should (through the body for a strike, strongly connecting to the appropriate body parts in a hold), renders nage’s intended response, and therefore the art, meaningless. Nor does it help nage’s learning if uke’s subsequent movement is at odds with the progression of the technique.
So in our usual, medium-to-slow paced practice, uke is a person who maintains an attack in spite of the natural urge to counter nage’s rather obvious response. This both requires and engenders mental discipline and is motivated by a desire to help, at lower speeds, nage to learn responses that would become appropriate and effective only at more realistic speeds.

Flowing:

Their is a corollary to this steadfast suspension of disbelief expressed in uke’s continuing attack: As the nage’s appropriate response to it are realized in kuzushi and then projection or pinning, an agreement occurs: uke will now use ukemi skills so as to survive nage’s movement without injury. At, and beyond, the transition from attack to survival there is, ideally, no further need for uke to act “as if.” Rather, uke is now practicing complete agreement with the forces of gravity and inertia, together with nage’s centripetal or centrifugal contribution.
In the beginning of training, terms like go no sen, sen no sen and sen sen no sen are all appropriate to this type of basic practice, whether static, moving or ki no nagare. This is because the attack is, at least in basic training, choreographed. However, such terms lose their meaning in “advanced” keiko, when sufficient maturity in ukemi and internal practice develops into an embodiment of aiki.
So where does the pathology come in?

It starts with katatedori kokyu ho. All of us know that it is the rare beginning student whose grip on nage remains constant throughout the movement. It takes a difficult act of imagination to see that the movement done slowly, over a couple of seconds, is simulating something that would, in an actual encounter, happen much faster: in as little as 0.2-0.4 seconds! It takes a while – as well as a teacher who insists on it – for students to see the necessity of holding nage’s whole body with their own whole body – not just the hand – and so to allow themselves to move their feet with nage’s response. Only by freeing the feet to move can the grip be honestly maintained. Not before this is done can uke see that it is the attack that provides the energy and intention which, responded to with appropriate connection and movement, takes uke’s balance.
For this reason uke is often referred to as nage’s “teacher.” Uke sets up the conditions that make a particular technique or set of movements relevant. It would seem to be better phrased as “giving ukemi” rather than taking it. So uke needs to have some understanding of how the technique works. To develop this understanding, all students need to be able to do the entire ukemi by themselves, with an imaginary nage. Also useful is the opposite practice of moving as nage with an imaginary uke.

In basic technique, and more so in budo keiko, uke needs to be present from beginning, through the execution and also after the art is done. At the beginning, the confrontation. Then, strong attack. During the execution, the flowing, like a leaf on a stream. At the end, safe communication – with the mat, and with nage: landing in the right way and to the right place: “the sound of one hand slapping;” smoothly and without delay getting up to attack again: but doing so with a sense of respect for what nage could still do… This is Zanshin – unbroken awareness. If any of this is missing, the training of both parties suffers.

How can we train in such a way that learning is maximally enhanced?

In order to do this, we need to first understand what doesn’t work, and recognize such behavior in ourselves. Then we need to see how to fix it.

Ukemi Pathology

What can go wrong in ukemi?

First and foremost, the attitude to training can be off. People who “play” martial arts have the attitude of “let’s see what you can do.” Others have unresolved fear-issues that make them very stiff. Either of these attitudes often results in unintelligent behavior that leaves the attacker immediately open to kicks, head-butts, strikes etc. without any possibility of defense. Glomming on and excessive tension in the attack are symptoms of this kind of attitude. Another symptom is being so heavy that nage has to drag them around to finish the technique.

Then there are the “scaredy-cats” who don’t trust their partners. They will start an attack, and the moment nage responds with a movement they will – unconsciously – change the attack or start a block. Or, as is often seen in Ikkyo, they will start to back up, while still holding on, when nage starts the Ikkyo cut. So the attack disappears. Another example is that of the “absent uke.” These are the persons who think that Aikido is all about technique. It’s nage’s glory and uke is just there to provide nage with an opportunity to shine. They think it’s “their turn” when they are up for nage. As uke they will start an attack but the moment nage responds with a movement, the energy in their attack will disappear and they loose focus on their own ukemi. It’s as if they are done with the attempt and are now waiting around – or not – for their own turn.

Competitive reaction is also alive and well in many people. Taking every interaction on the mat as an opportunity to “win,” they are incapable of giving ukemi properly in their obsession with tricking nage up. Such people are better off doing MMA (mixed-up martial arts). One of the unfortunate results, seen more in some schools that in others, is that they will tend to do a lot of stopping of the movement, as if that makes them superior to nage. They need to be shown how dangerous that can be for them. I don’t mean that stopping should never be done: if there is no intent in nage, where should I, as uke, go? If my unbalancing is sending me one way and nage is fighting that to push me another way, nage is the one doing the stopping, not me. But, a lot of the time, stopping the movement is just ego.

On the other side of the spectrum, an all too common attitude in the Aikido world today is expressed in: “Aikido is a spiritual art, not a martial one.” People who have this attitude, even in the slightest, don’t know what an attack is. You see pictures of such people doing a fist strike with bent wrists – this would break their wrist were there any contact! Or worse, they strike at the air near the atemi point with neither focus nor intent, almost as a pro-forma part of their dance move. They grab weakly. Their ukemi tends to be over-obliging. One of the greater absurdities during training is seeing someone like this smiling happily while doing a strike – as if attacking someone is meant to be fun! Another symptom of this attitude is evident in many videos (of sometimes very beautiful Aikido movement with uke’s who seem eager to please): it is obvious that the nage has never been hit in his or her life. Otherwise they would not place themselves in the vulnerable positions that become obvious in their movement.

At an extreme, there is such a thing as becoming the “universal uke,” always ready to please and not taking responsibility for one’s own warriorship. Sometimes they become over-obliging “OK uke’s”, so that their partners end up having no idea whether their art works or not. Consummate artists of pliability, such folk are actually almost there: a spot of real leadership development can do the trick.

I have compassion for each of these attitudes. Each of us will recognize one or more of them as having manifested in our self, at least in our early training. Some of us were fortunate to have Sensei or sempai who put us in situations where we had to confront the truth about ourselves – and change our behavior. But I think it is important to understand that at the root of all these attitudes, there is a lack of trust, and a lack of humility. Ukemi training is humility training, par excellence. It is also the golden route to discovering the highest levels of skill in reversal, or kaeshi waza, and therefore counts as a major – perhaps the major – component of budo practice. But it equally has a lot to do with trust: trust in oneself, to move to safety as the art unfolds. Trust in one’s nages, that they will move smoothly and not roughly to execute their technique: that they will care for the safety of uke (i.e., if uke indeed, regrettably makes it necessary to require such care). Trust in Aikido.

Ukemi Materia Medica

How can an instructor best place students in the attitude-changing situations required to transform their ukemi?

Basic is, of course, lots of repetition of the basic skills of rolling and falling (or, really, “not-falling”) practice. In addition to the standard kneeling and standing rolls, this should include variations in configuration (one leg bent, or one leg straight out); in speed, from exquisitely slow to almost-dangerously fast; variations in height, such as rolling from a handstand, leaping forwards to roll, rolling from kneeling, squatting, fully prone or supine positions; high falls from kneeling solo, going over someone lying down, kneeling or bending over, standing high-falls while being held all the way to freely throwing oneself. Rolling while being pushed in any direction, rolling in any direction from a fixed stance, rolling in tight spaces or on slopes, rolling through other people who are also rolling around: both on the ground and standing. Doing forward and back rolls with a partner while touching hands. Finally, every now and then rolling should be practiced on wood, concrete or asphalt – and, e.g., off of picnic tables.

Now all this can give students a certain confidence in their own ability to land safely. But it is not enough: connection with nage has also to be taught. This is the area where most of the pathologies mentioned above appear. Here the basic skills are two:
· knowing how to attack, and
· knowing how to flow, i.e., to feel nage’s intent – and being able to follow it, however briefly (at least until the inevitable becomes obvious).

Unfortunately, many Aikido schools seem to have adopted the idea that “we never hit,” so their students do not learn four important lessons of budo:

1. How to hold different parts of nage’s body in a variety of ways that can be used to throw, pin or set up a follow-up strike with any part of one’s own body;
2. How to deliver a realistic strike that could cause serious damage (dageki);
3. How to deliver a realistic strike that could energetically affect the partner’s balance (atemi: energy strikes as against the blunt-force trauma of #2.). Again, this should be learned with any body part;
4. How to discover one’s own suki (vulnerabilities, openings): both as uke and as nage.

Once these skills are acquired, it becomes realistic for the partner to simulate, even at lower speeds, the desire to survive and move away from the attack in a way that justifies the particular technique’s progression. Only then – not before.

This means that real atemi needs to be an integral part of our curriculum. For many Aikido practitioners, items 1., 2. and especially 3. above seem to be undeveloped. One reason for this is that students have not had a chance to confront their own fear of actually striking someone or something. [This is both a fear of hurting the other and a fear of hurting oneself.] Some Karate people spend a lot of time on makiwara overcoming this fear while developing striking skill; boxers attack focus mitts. I think some serious portion of our training should include learning actual strikes too. However, I feel that practice on firm makiwara boards or on heavy bags is not good for the wrists and other joints. So what to do? I would venture that a certain amount of time spent attacking focus mitts with men tsuki, shomen uchi and yokomen uchi is well spent. Tanren uchi training with swords is, properly taught, also a good practice. Knuckle pushups – on a hard surface – are excellent. In the end, the best way of learning to hit bodies is: to hit bodies. Alarming as this may sound, there are detailed and non-threatening drills in such arts as Systema that can both train the attacker to attack with proper atemi as well as help the receiver to dissipate the effects of a blow that actually lands. In Aikido we generally want to avoid the outcome in which a blow actually lands – this is indeed an excellent way of dissipating the blow! But what will you do if it does land? We need to practice to get beyond the tension of such situations.

Once the practitioner starts feeling confident in both giving and receiving blows, a whole world opens up. The enhanced effect of training in tachidori, tantodori and jodori starts to inform our empty-hand training instead of, oddly, staying separate (as it does too often).

As far as item 4. above is concerned, the best way to discover one’s suki while being nage is to have them pointed out: not in “cuchi waza” (talking-instead-of training) but in being struck: or in being surprisingly reversed in a pin or throw. The first, uke striking through nage’s opening, anyone can do. The rule would be to 1. Not to do this while suddenly (and sneakily) changing the speed of practice; and 2. not do this to hurt but to instruct (when this happened to Tom Cruise’s character in the “Last Samurai,” I’m sure the pain, though not ultimately destructive, was very instructive!). I don’t know why most Aikido Dojo today frown on such an entirely helpful behavior, other than the preservation of ego. A light bruise today could save your life tomorrow…

It is because they don’t get hit more often that we see uke’s glomming on and settling during randori in tests. Nobody has pointed out to them how crazy that can be in a real situation. And that’s easily done, with one strike. So, yes, I am advocating actually striking one’s partner: out of love, not aggression, and only with enough force to make the somatic point without severe injury.

The other suki-self-discovery, of having one’s efforts reversed, is something that needs to be done very carefully in training. I recall Saito Sensei refusing teaching kaeshi waza to mudansha at a San Diego seminar (and even having the windows papered over before that session!). I can certainly understand that this comes from a desire to not aggrandize the egos of immature aikidoka, which can easily happen in kaeshi waza. In most kaeshi waza training that I have participated in, the particular kaeshi being taught are turned into techniques themselves, so that it’s not really kaeshi: nage is meant to attack a certain way and uke reverses it this way. It just means that nage was actually uke and uke was really nage from the beginning, as against a spontaneous disappearance of their roles in the middle. I think kaeshi waza training, while starting that way, needs to grow realistic: show a range of possible responses to nage’s given technique, and then let the students see if any of them make sense – or if something else does. Moreover, if nage’s work is not ill-designed but is actually working, notice that and take the ukemi without argument! This kind of advanced practice requires close supervision by the instructor lest it turn into brute fighting. The key is that both uke and nage need to remember to be as relaxed as possible throughout the exercise.

Why is kaeshi waza training important?

Technically it is useful in refining the precision of one’s movement and connection, and so sealing suki. It is one of the major ways in which Aikido training can refine the spirit through the difficult forging process of burning up ego. There are some schools, such as Kobayashi Hirokazu ryu, which train kaeshi in every class, so this idea is not new. Most importantly, kaeshi waza is essential in developing the relaxed non-contention of pure ukemi, because it is only this pure ukemi that makes Aikido kaeshi possible.
In kobudo it was traditional for the teacher to take ukemi from the student, at least for the first few years of the student’s training. This has been reversed in many modern budo, including the way Aikido is practiced. I have heard of at least one Aikido shihan stating that there is no point in taking ukemi from the students because they couldn’t throw him anyway. Why not? Or, to put it another way, what happened to his choice? On the other hand, I once trained at a seminar in L.A. taught by Abe Seiseki Shihan when he was 81 years old and vividly remember how he came over to me when we were practicing kata-dori kuzushi and took ukemi from me – helping me immeasurably!

I am not saying that the current system should be reversed again. There is a good reason why it is the way it is: it takes, in my opinion, usually at least until nidan before a student can start taking sophisticated ukemi as described above. It is therefore, however, very important for teachers to take frequent ukemi from their students: both in order to enhance the student’s learning of technique, as nage, and also to model good ukemi for them. And, if occasionally kaeshi emerges, and it is done through love: well, that’s what good parents and teachers do

 Nage and Uke an expectation…
Nage and Uke an expectation...

A small section, taken from an article written by Tres Hofmeister sensei called Ukemi.  The link to the whole article can be found under ‘Training tips’ in the ‘Aikido’ menu heading or follow this further reading’ link.

 

Uke

In actual physical conflict, there are of course no fixed roles, and no rules. In order for the kata method to be effective, uke and nage must both understand the distinction between actual conflict and what goes on in the dojo. When uke resists unreasonably, he has forgotten that nage is constrained to the technique being practiced only by their mutual agreement. Often people resisting a technique do so from a fundamentally weak position with no apparent awareness of the martial alternatives available to their partner.

Nage

When nage throws with unreasonable force, he has forgotten that uke is offering an opening, and has foregone any attempt to counter. No reasonable person will give someone an open opportunity to injure them; uke receives the technique in a spirit of trust. Conversely, nage trusts that uke will attack appropriately. Nage too can then practice with confidence that he will not be injured by an unexpected attack. In this way, we develop confidence and trust in one another, and the intensity of training can increase.

The way of disgrace

Extract taken from this original article

Guillaume Erard: So you owe your views on Aikido to Kisshomaru Ueshiba Sensei and Seigo Yamaguchi Sensei don’t you?

Olivier Gaurin teaching in TokyoOlivier Gaurin: These two Sensei were indeed my humble basis of work but I tried to follow every teacher, particularly Osawa Kisaburo Sensei. Like many old Sensei, I think that very few people understood what he was doing. It was an interesting Aikido, very flexible, but in a rigid mentality, all of that behind a very sympathetic mask, as is often the case here in Japan. Osawa Kisaburo Sensei was a bit like a peach with a big stone in it (laughs)! Of course I also particularly liked the classes of Arikawa, Watanabe and Endo Sensei and I think that their influence on me is still visible today.

Basically, there are three ways to learn in Japan. The first one is to follow one particular Sensei and to become a sort of doppelganger. The second one, also called here the “way of disgrace” ["Fuhyô no Michi" (不評の道) : "the way of impopularity"] is about learning from everyone, without particular affiliation or allegiance, and of course without recognition. This is the way that I have chosen but it is a quite tedious and thankless task, you have to build yourself using all the conflicting information that you are exposed to. The third way is a mix of both, one choses a Sensei as main mentor but goes to put his knowledge into practice at other people’s classes.

For me, the “way of disgrace” is the most interesting, both in ethical and technical terms, because one has to follow contradictory teachings and therefore, it keeps one on the tangent of what I call the flow of appropriation. It prevents discourses that are in essence “I am right and the others are wrong”.

Daito Ryu Aikijujutsu vs. Aikido

Daito Ryu Aikijujutsu vs. AikidoDaito-ryu is a Japanese core style from which many modern variations have sprung. Shorinji kenpo, hapkido, Kodokan judo and aiki are martial arts that were originated by disciples of daito-ryu that have since splintered into numerous modern variations of their own.Daito-ryu aikijujutsu is one such splinter style that has somehow managed to adhere to the traditional teachings of its core style forerunner (daito-ryu) and its predecessor (aiki). But because of its adherence to tradition—and its insistence on retaining most of the more painful and deadly self-defense techniques—the martial art has remained relatively obscure.

Although there are several thousand disciples of the art in Japan, daito-ryu aikijujutsu is almost totally unknown in the United States. Most senior students of modern aikido know that their art descended from daito-ryu, but many are under the impression that the daito system became extinct several generations ago.

Aiki’s Many Branches

At the present time, there are more than 40 different styles of aiki in Japan, with most of them emanating from the modern branch started by Morihei Uyeshiba. While modern styles are widely taught in the United States, the older forms are little known, leaving many people with the idea that there is only one style of the art. Actually, old densho (teaching scrolls) are full of mention of aiki.

Long a secret art, aiki was first openly taught by Takeda Sokaku in the early part of this century. Takeda Sokaku was a man of frightening spiritual power and one of the last of the old swordsmen. In addition to being the 24th-generation headmaster of the daito-ryu, he was a master of itto-ryu kenjutsu (sword) and hozoin-ryu sojutsu (spear). He was one of the most influential and least known of the great Japanese masters of the 20th century. Among the more famous daito-ryu disciples were Morihei Uyeshiba (founder of modern aikido), Doshin So (founder of shorinji kenpo) and Yong Shul Choi (founder of hapkido). Another great was Shiro Shida, immortalized in such films as Sanshiro Sugata, who played a major part in the founding of Kodokan judo. Many people are not aware that he won many matches for the Kodokan, in the early days when it was struggling for survival, using the daito-ryu technique of yama arashi (mountain storm).

Modern aiki has gone through many profound changes during the past 50 years, primarily because of the efforts of Morihei Uyeshiba. A man of tremendous physical strength, he is the most famous disciple of Takeda Sokaku. He started teaching daito-ryu aikijujutsu but soon began making changes in the art. As he changed techniques, he also changed the name of the style, using successively daito-ryu aikijutsu, kobukan aikijujutsu, kobukai aiki budo, tenshin aikido, takemusu aiki budo and finally aikido. This last change came at the end of World War II. The bu was dropped because of the Allied occupation ban on practicing martial arts. As Jigoro Kano did with judo, Morihei Uyeshiba eliminated many dangerous techniques and modified others for safety. This allowed aikido to be practiced by a much wider range of people than the more violent aikijutsu styles, thus greatly increasing its popularity.

Daito Ryu Aikijujutsu vs. Modern Aiki Styles

The first thing that one may notice when practicing daito-ryu aikijujutsu is the power of the attacks. In most of the modern aiki styles, the attacks tend to be rather soft. If your training partner resists the technique, he does so not with his arms but by motion of his hips. However, in daito-ryu aikijujutsu training, the attacks are full power. When your partner grabs your wrist, he does so with the intention of trying to prevent even the slightest motion of your hand. He grabs hard, locking every muscle in his body, as if he was trying to crush the bone in your forearm. Proper practice should result in a mass of finger-shaped bruises on your forearm the next day.

The spiritual differences are equally evident. In the old days, masters used the terms aiki and kiai interchangeably. They thought of aiki as a method of spiritually overpowering an opponent, and it was a part of many arts, especially kenjutsu (fencing). While most modern styles think of aiki as a process of gently blending with an opponent in order to control him, daito-ryu aikijujutsu adheres to the traditional approach and treats aiki as a powerful blast of spiritual energy, little different from the karate kiai.

Falling for Daito-Ryu’s Techniques

Technically, the differences between traditional and modern aiki are very obvious. Although there are exceptions, almost all the modern aikido’s techniques stress the use of very large circles. Daito-ryu, on the other hand, tends to use very small circles. While the small-circle techniques are much more combat efficient, they are much harder to practice. You can use large circle techniques on even a beginning student without breaking him, but the daito-ryu aikijujutsu technique will require a very good ukemi (falling technique). The modern aikido technique will twist your arm, forcing you to the mat. The old-style technique twists your arm in an effort to remove it from your body. You are often required to throw yourself into a rather spectacular fall in an effort to keep the arm from being dislocated.

Most modern throwing techniques will result in large, circular rolls, while their older counterparts cause hard, judo-style falls. This sudden, painful action is a characteristic of all old styles and illustrates a key factor of traditional martial arts. Modern martial arts dilute their self-defense techniques in order to allow a beginner to practice safely. Traditional ryu however, takes the attitude, “If you can’t stand the heat, get out of the fire.” If a few beginners get broken, that’s their own problem. Techniques are not altered for the student’s benefit.

When you practice a self-defense technique, if your partner smiles, it is modern aikido. If he screams, it is daito-ryu aikijujutsu.

Daito-Ryu Aikijujutsu

Although the traditional forms of aiki lack much of the fluid grace of their more modern cousins, they more than make up for it with combat realism. The daito-ryu aikijujutsu idea of a good training partner is someone who weighs about 300 pounds and has a grip like a hydraulic vise. If they can manage to throw someone like that, after he has been allowed to plant both feet and hold as tight as possible, they know that the technique really works.

Katsumi Yonezawa, a Daito-Ryu Aikijujutsu Master

One of the most prominent practitioners of the art, Katsumi Yonezawa of Hokkaido, Japan, annually visits the United States to teach this ancient art. From the headquarters of the American branch of the Daito-Ryu Kodo Kai in San Luis Obispo, he travels throughout California giving lectures and seminars.

A small man, Katsumi Yonezawa is a schoolteacher, and if you fail to notice the very thick wrists, you might think that’s all he is. He has a very disarming smile and gentle manner that tends to relax people in his presence. His disciples have learned to ignore this, for they know that he is still smiling while busily at work tying their arms into complex knots. Katsumi Yonezawa’s students have also learned to pay particular attention to how he acts before class. If he sits at the edge of the mat waiting for class to start, there will be only the normal amount of pain. However, if he starts doing stretching exercises, students start looking at each other and quietly groaning in anticipation of some brutal throws. When Katsumi Yonezawa actually goes so far as to practice his ukemi, students start looking for a place to hide.

Daito-ryu aikijujutsu is not for everybody. It is just too physically demanding to ever be practiced by the wide range of students studying modern aikido. But to those who are interested in the foundations of the martial art, it offers both a window into the past and a gate to the future. Daito-ryu aikijujutsu is an unchanging path, straight down the middle of all of the modern variations of aiki.

(F.J. Lovret is the head instructor of the San Diego Budokan and the owner of Nippon-To, a shop specializing in the sale of antique Japanese swords.)

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Testing and ranking by Rocky Izumi

Original Article

A test or ranking is not just for the person taking the rank test. It is as much for the rest of the Dojo, the Sensei, and newbies who don’t know the people in the Dojo.

There are several reasons for testing. One of these reasons is to show newer people what they need to learn, to provide a standard for them. Another is to show the Sensei how you perform under stress. Another is to give a belt rank that allows newbies to know what rank you are so that they can go to you for help. These are just a few of the reasons.

Why should someone NOT stop taking tests? Well, it becomes very embarrassing for the people who have taken rank tests to have someone who is lower ranked be technically and conceptually better than them. However, if a person hasn’t taken rank when then should have, then the person does not deserve it yet since the person does not yet understand the importance of ranking for the benefit of the whole Dojo. Interesting, if a person will not take rank tests, then they don’t deserve the rank yet. I have recently had to deal with this problem here in Hong Kong. The person thought they were being very humble but after looking deeply into his motivations, he realized that rather than being humble, he was being very arrogant. All those of you who are not taking rank test to remain humble, please review your motivations carefully, they may not be as pure as you think. I know since I once looked at things in the same way myself.

In Hong Kong, we give tests in front of a Board. As a member of the Board, I am not concerned only with how the individual performs in the exam, but their long-term performance in day-to-day practice. I think all of us have had instances when we are at seminars and a Sensei is standing next to us watching our technique and there is no way that you can do the technique correctly even though it is normally your favourite and best technique. In fact, you were probably doing it quite well while the Sensei was not looking but you foul up as soon as you feel his or her eyes upon you. This is why our tests are usually at the end of a period of practice during which I have a chance to watch the testees practicing their technique.

Second, the spirit of the Aikidoist is important. Does the person help others? Does the person understand the principles behind the techniques? Does the person have good Dojo Reigi? Will I be embarrassed if this person visits another Dojo? Does the person have good ukemi? Does the person practice vigorously with commitment? Do they have good zanshin? What is their mindset as they test? Will the person keep going even when the chips are down?

Third, what is the person capable of? Are they working to their limits (part of the spirit question maybe)? How is their progress?

Fourth, will conferring the higher rank improve their Aikido through improvement of their confidence? Maybe the person needs some help to stop worrying about the test so they can get on with their practicing and learning?

Fifth, what is their commitment to Aikido? How often do they come to practice? How often do they ask questions? Are they thinking about Aikido all the time.

Sixth, what is their potential? Am I wasting my time on this person? Are they only looking for rank or are they truly interesting in getting a chance to learn more advanced techniques? Why are they testing?

Seventh, how is this person’s Aikido relative to the others in the Dojo with whom they practice? This is the equity question relative to others in the Dojo or association or federation. This question should not be answered only in terms of technique but also time spent in Aikido, the amount of work the person does for Aikido (including administrative work), and the visibility of the person in the Dojo.

Eighth, how is the power of this person’s techniques? After all, this is a MARTIAL ART! What is the martial competence of the person?

Ninth, will conferring the higher rank do anything for Aikido as a whole or for the Dojo or association/federation? Will the person be a good ambassador for Aikido to outsiders? Will be person help to make Aikido grow?

There are probably a few other issues I have forgotten at present. The list is not in any specific order, especially since depending upon the specific case-by-case circumstances, which issue is most important will differ. All of these issues, though, must be balanced off. No one issue ever disappears off the list. Things just change in weighting and there is no weighting of zero.

Please note that these are my own personal criteria and are not necessarily that of any others.

By the way, these criteria hold whether the ranking is for Mudansha or Yudansha.

 

    Rock

 

Fear of Failure and the Art of Ukemi: 3 Lessons from Aikido

by Judy Ringer

Original Article

Sometimes it seems that the energy has been drained from much of our communication. We try to do the right thing, say the right words, and be safe instead of real. And while our intentions are noble, we often leave the meaning out. It stays hidden behind carefully constructed technique that actually doesn’t say very much.

While I am not in favor of reactively blurting out whatever comes to mind, unfiltered and potentially harmful, I am in favor of being real. Of saying what we need to say so that we can engage in meaningful dialogue.

What prevents this meaningful exchange of thought, perspective and energy?

Fear of Failure and The Art of Ukemi

When the stakes are high, we often hold back because we’re afraid we’ll make a mistake, look foolish, hurt others, or get hurt ourselves. Using the Aikido metaphor, we’re afraid of falling down because we don’t know if we can get back up again.

When I teach Aikido applications in workplace settings, I sometimes demonstrate “real” Aikido with a partner. For about a minute, my partner attacks with a variety of strikes, grabs and punches, and I blend and redirect by throwing him into a backfall or forward roll. It’s fun. And it’s a lot of fun for my partner, too, who receives the power of the throw in much the same way I receive his attack– by channeling it into a graceful fall.

In Aikido, falling is an art form–the art of ukemi (receiving). We don’t see falling down as failure, because we don’t see what we’re doing as a contest. We’re playing. We’re staying in relationship as we give and receive and play with ki (energy). Falling is one way to handle the thrower’s powerful ki.

At any given Aikido practice, we fall down and get up again at least a hundred times or more. Staying present with the energy, taking care of ourselves in the process, we become more resilient, flexible, and fearless.

Conversational Ukemi: Lessons from Aikido

Learning the skills to hold conflict conversations provides similar benefits. When you know you’ll be art-of-ukemi-Kanai-Sensei-David-Halprinall right regardless of what happens in the conversation, you are freer to engage. You begin to understand that:

#1) Safety is a mindset.

There are no guarantees about what might happen. It’s not about trusting the other person. It’s about trusting yourself to catch their ki and be artful with it. You learn to trust your ability to flex and be resilient no matter what comes your way.

#2) True power lies in relationship

And in your willingness to stay in the conversation, to talk, listen and solve problems. You may get hurt. There’s no bubble-wrap, as colleague Melisa Gillis says. And, you reframe what the hurt and pain and falling down mean. Have you failed or have you learned something? Your choice makes the difference between crumpling and getting up off the mat to re-enter the conversation. You don’t have to get it “right” the first time. You just have to be willing to stay with it.

#3) Relationships are not about one conversation

They are a continuous journey. As mentor and colleague Tom Crum says: “We are always and everywhere in relationship.” We may try to avoid this reality, but we are connected. Knowing this, we see the question as not whether but how to be in relationship.

The final safety net, if there is one, is learning to reframe our notions about conflict. We all have it. Let’s figure out how to use it, transform it, and benefit from it.

 

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